When I was a kid, I have a lot of friends and we liked to joke with each others everyday.
One day, I ask one of my friends, “If you die, you would choose to go to the heave or hell?”
My friend answers me, “Of course I would like to go to the hell.”
His abnormal answer gave me a big wonder. I continue to ask him, “Any special reasons?”
He said, “I have more friends in hell, I also can persuade other friends to go with me to the hell. Then we can have party everyday, is that fun? Beside it, I am their leader; they have no way to left me alone.”
Although my friend is joking but he gave a strong reason why someone would like to go to the hell.
If you open your eyes, then you may find it happen daily in our society.
We cannot live without friends in our society, but we can choose our friends. If your friend is taking drug and they are dealer, they always persuade you that his drug is no harm; you will have fun after taking it and especially it is “FREE”.
If you think you have self control on drug taking and follow their advices, one day you discover the drug is harmful, you are too late to leave it. At the end you will become as a dealer, continue to recruit your friends as a new drug takers and drug dealers.
If you insist to accompany with your friends to go to the hell to have party, you find fun with it, no one will stop you, because it is your own choice, you take the responsibility for your own.